SA!! ~ LB-69

Ladyboy Newbie Joined: 14 Jan 2006 Posts: 3 Points: 20

Hey I just wanted to know if any of the other guys here are sex addicts. I mean real SA. After im with a TS I fall into an extreme depression and guilt almost to the point of feeling suicidal. I really dont want to have sex with them but I do anyway. Does anyone else have a similar story? I HATE IT!!

Not sure why you feel guilty?

Relax, enjoy yourself and don't be too analytical.

Cheers
Koykaeng

Ladyboy Expert Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 896 Points: 636

Hey NeedPryer,

I've got a friend very similar to yourself. He's on a real downer everytime he shows any interest. I'm lucky that i have an attitude of 'live and let live' and am very open minded, but i guess others have been brought up in a more 'catholic' way (without wanting to bring religion into it).. but its the only way to describe the waves of guilt he gets if he enjoys more 'specialised' sex!

My friend moralises to others, after being lusting and performing with the LB's. I guess he trys to preach to others not to do as he does.

You are not alone my friend !

Please try to understand that others here are sympathetic to you, and we ourselves enjoy what you do - and we are not bad people. Society is intollerate, BUT I've seen so so so many guys who keep it a secret but love LB's.

Ladyboy Expert Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 896 Points: 636

I merely mean that some of us are not as candid about our experiences, and some are even more extreme and have significant feelings of guilt.

I do not think when a fellow member indicates "guilt almost to the point of feeling suicidal" that we should take that lightly and joke about it

Everyone is different, and has different feelings.

And its important that we can share and reassure when we are aware of others in the same position.

My friend has very very similar feelings to NeedPryer. And whilst its easy for us more confident and experienced contributors to shrug this off as one guys silly feeling - i think this is perhaps a more deep rooted problem.

Lets not fool ourselves......Society rejects both LB's and the admirers who are interested in LB's. I think we are frowned apon even more that the gay society. And some more vunreable LB admirers who have the strong feelings and desires also feel like freaks within society.

We should be more aware of this as a group and support and promote that we are not "weirdo's", just have a common love/lust for LB's. And can enjoy our urges without feelings of guilt and promote open minded behaviour in society

Sorry guys, it's a little bit heavy; but it was a very serious topic raised and a serious concern raised by Needpryer, and I think we should respect his time in posting his concern and respond in kind.