Do you choose the first one you see?? ~ LB-69

As discussed in my field report from Phuket... I thought it mightbe interesting to see everyones perspective on this topic.

I've only got a couple of rules when LB hunting:

1. Never pay over the odds
2. Negogiate first - ensure you've secured a price before you leave the bar
3. Never get involved with anyone who has a hint of drugs - in behaviour or any comment they might make
4. Always have an exit strategy - when entering a room... or even a relationship
5. Never ever send money

AND...

6. Never choose the first girl you see or speak to. As another maybe be better around the corner.

I've always felt that only a rank amateur who cannot control himself will choose the first girl he sees or talks to.

This rule is normally sound advice but has some HUGE disadvantages also... as i get very choosie when i'm in Thailand. And I get scared "what if i dont see a better one tonight??"

It's almost a topic on its own.... how come when i'm outside Thailand i get frustrated Dream about and will almost screw the builders in a dress... but when i get to Thailand my "Selective Gene" kicks in and i become very selective about which LB i will choose for the evening.

sorry... back on topic...

SO... i've got a little advice. If you talk to a girl (or see one early evening)... get her phone number!
You can always look around - hunt without worry - and if you dont see anything you like then phone the girl up later in the evening and arrange to meet her. This as worked a few times for me - whilst before i didnt think about it and regretted not striking when the iron was hot.

Another way is to arrange to meet her in her bar or someplace later. I've had mixed results with that. Sometimes you return and she's with another punter - thats just a huge turn off.

Ladyboy Hunter Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 235 Points: 270

hi brit,
a question fro you dude,
what do you think would be the recommened pirces for the follows:
Bangkok:
Lb in the bar: longtime and short time,
Freelance (as Lb u see, we say outside nana plaza after the bars have closed): Longtime and short,

Pattaya:
as bove....

I know from reading the threads that rule of thumb is never pay her for longtime, just pretend shortime back to your hotel for a quickie and if you click she prob stay with u for the night and you can sort her out cash iwse yourself in the morning.

i going to thaialnd for my 1st trip in late march and have found the site to be a fucking gem with info from all ye guys.
i think from reading a guess is about 1500baht but haddle and might get it fro 1200 for short time! and when back in your hotel ye might click etc..
as for the bars it seems the avergae bar fine is about 500-600baht!! but then is it up to u the price u work out with her or is it with the bar??
i seen on a link from one of the threads, that for example Lb Mint is charging 6000baht!!! fucking hell thats about 130euro!!!
i know in ireland its 300euro for an hr!! so i dont mind paying 1500baht which is about 33baht.
plus while i'm there i be banging chicks as well, because i travelling with a mate! and the LB thing is my little sceret!!! my mates say from last trip there a doll cost about 500-800longtime,
well thay said meet them in club and hook up with them treat them right! dinner etc..a nd money in the morning along with going for brakfast etc.. and u like her meet her agin.
i agree with u, bring a pen and notepad and when meet any Lb u like take there number as to ring them later if u get about 5numbers one is bound to be free that nite! plus it might be les the bar fine..
any tips will be great bro'

Ladyboy Expert Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 827 Points: 48

Brit wrote:

Ladyboy God Joined: 21 Jun 2006 Posts: 5448 Points: 12902

Ladyboy Expert Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 827 Points: 48

I typically say "I've gotta meet my friend - but hopefully if i can get rid of him i'll be back"

Ladyboy Expert Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 827 Points: 48

Ladyboy Hunter Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 296 Points: 341

I don't go with the first one. chemistry decides everything.

When I take a seat in one of the bars and am mobbed by LBs,..I tell them "I go bar hopping tonite,..Bar! Bar! Bar!"

I do not feel compelled to buy a drink unless I am enjoying them or intend to bar fine one. It doesn't hurt for her to ask and I am free to refuse.

I like to scout out the faces and then return a second night for the honey I want. The odd time the chemistry is so instant that I take them on the spot,..but it is rare.

"phone thing would never work for me, I have a hard enough time understanding them when I can see them"

What kinda comment is that !!

Sounds racist to me !

Ladyboy God Joined: 21 Jun 2006 Posts: 5448 Points: 12902

It's actually amazing how well some of them speak English. Most of them learn through minimal education and then pick it up very quiickly in the bars.

OK, there are soem enoying expressions and phrases that only exist in LOS, but in general the standard of English is good and I've very rarely had problems communicating, you only tend to get this with the girls who are fresh on the scene.

It puts most of us to shame, especiailly those Ex-pats who have been on the scene for year and still speak pidgeon Thai.

Absolutely correct Kliome.

I wonder how fluent freakslikeme69 is. Probably "Hello" and "Thankyou" is his max in Thai. Please sir try to be more tolerant of other cultures and societies.

As Kliome says these girls have picked up most of the language from customers and it just shows how intelligent they are to do that and also be able to scam hundreds/thousands of pounds for naive punters.

I'm fluent in English and i find it difficult extracting cash from my clients !!

Ladyboy Hunter Joined: 17 Jul 2006 Posts: 201 Points: 143

I totally agree with brit and Kliome with this one.
I was chatting to this girl online and her engllish and spelling is even better than mine, the amount of times I scrolled up to copy and paste a word she wrote cause I could'nt spell it myself is well into double figures by now and in regards to the question in the tread, I've never even been to thailand, let alone even met a ladyboy, but am meeting the one I have been chatting to and planning on spending my whole 2 weeks there with her, and am looking forward to posting my first field report aswell and trust me its going to be a good one, cause the things a planning on doing Evil

Ladyboy Hunter Joined: 02 Nov 2006 Posts: 110 Points: 204

Regarding your original question Brit, i think there is no need to feel like you are missing out by choosing the first one that you find sexy. It will always play on your mind 'have i chosen too soon' but there is no end to that demon in your mind..It can and will drive you crazy.
If i find the girl im talking to attractive and fun, then i usually forget about what else might be waiting around the corner. If it is still early in the evening and im not ready to go back to my room yet, then i take her for a drink somewhere quiet or go to eat or play pool.

Besides, more often then not, you will regret walking away!

Alternatively, you could take her number and try to locate her later, but if she was hot then chances are you wont get hold of her!