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Ladyboy Newbie Joined: 22 Jun 2008 Posts: 3 Points: 23

very nice photos Very Happy

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Didnt Pear get the "chop" ???

Ladyboy Newbie Joined: 30 Jun 2008 Posts: 9 Points: 30

I visited the Guess bar when it was still on Soi 1 and just getting started up in the business.

It was early in the evening and I just wanted to look the place over and enjoy a drink or two.

I was joined by an unknown hostess immediately and we started up some lite chit chat.

To make a short story even shorter, this hostess was not really what I was looking for and honestly....I just wanted her to go away.

I am a polite kinda guy and never ever intend to create or cause hurt feelings.

What can, or what should, a customer do if the present company is not what we have in mind.....and just want to look around and or select another hostess for some chit chat?.....

Keeping in mind the hurt feelings and "face" factors is of upmost importance to me.

Ladyboy Lover Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Posts: 36 Points: 74

What can, or what should, a customer do if the present company is not what we have in mind.....and just want to look around and or select another hostess for some chit chat?.....

Keeping in mind the hurt feelings and "face" factors is of upmost importance to me.[/quote]

that is really the question I have as well and I think Koykaeng, Kliome, Moderators, Experts and LBhunters could answer for us newbies thank you!

In most cases, the Mamasan would be your best bet to remove unwanted attention and can help you in selecting more appropriate company. In Guess Bar's case, that would be the lovely Jay.

I've also found that simply being poilite to the lady that you are not fond of and telling her that you have more "specific requirements" that she may not possess (large bust, large cock, very petitie, or whatever your criteria may be) and they will often understand and move on (and may even also help in your search).

Lastly, buying them one ladydrink and telling them thanks but, no thanks is often a good way to make them go away, and save face.

Your mileage may vary.

Auto

I once had jane come onto me 'not my style' so i blew her off by saying id already barfined beer Razz

Ladyboy Newbie Joined: 30 Jun 2008 Posts: 9 Points: 30

"In most cases, the Mamasan would be your best bet to remove unwanted attention and can help you in selecting more appropriate company. In Guess Bar's case, that would be the lovely Jay".

Thanks for the tip Auto.....
Would you think that getting up from your seat, going to find the mamasan, and chatting her up about the unwanted hostess sitting with you...and then the mamasan going over to tell Miss X to hit the road.......yell loud and clear to this hostess that she is unwanted?
I just want to avoid confrontations, at all levels, and enjoy the sights and sounds without feeling "attached" to the first hostess that comes around.

I suppose a polite "no thanks" would be better than lying!!
Hopefully, these hostesses are professional enough to honor a polite rebuff without going bonkers???

Seacort.

It wouldn't likely be as blatant as that, and if it were , then so be it. It is then the mamasan's issue, not yours.

At the end of the day, every one of these girls has been passed on by a customer, and can deal with it (even the superstars).

When confronted with a similar situation, I usually politely just tell the LB in question that I'm looking for someone else and that usually does the trick. Don't think you have to take the first LB that sits down next to you and chats you up. You're the customer and the customer is always right (unless you're a total asshole, then all bets are off).

It really is "up to you." Don't sweat the small stuff. You're more likely going to be worrying about what beauty to take, instead which one to get rid of.

Auto

Ladyboy Guru Joined: 10 Mar 2007 Posts: 1719 Points: 1007

Alternatively you could buy the unwanted one a drink and then ask her opinion about some of the other girls that interest you . She may get the idea and offer to bring the one you want over .

Can't go wrong with a bottle of Singha....No other beer has that unique Chao Prya River flavour about it Laughing

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agreed. im a bit of a beer snob and for mine its one of if not the best SEA beers around . try it next to a tiger and see what i mean. cant say the same bout chang tho !
sorry for the random beer review post Smile

I popped into Guess on Saturday in the early evening - perhaps 8ish. Been wanting to go for a very long time and for one reason or another never made it. There were quite a few girls there and most seemed busy with makeup or chitchatting with each other. There were maybe 2 other customers. Mardhi (I think) was shooting 3 girls in various poses in red blouse and khaki skirts. After a minute a girl came over and sat down. I chatted with her for a minute and feeling a bit awkward offered to buy her a drink. She was attractive and nice but not my cup of tea so to speak. A few minutes later Jenny came in and as I've been fantasizing about her for quite awhile I invited her over for a drink as well.

She seemed distracted and totally uninterested. After a few minutes she went off to use her phone. Hmmm... I continued to be polite to the other girl. Jenny came back and finished her drink being barely attentive. Stupidly I bought them both another drink. My bad. I really had been fantasizing about Jenny and wanted to get to know her a bit and maybe even have a romp that night...

The next thing I knew, after one sip of her drink, Jenny was off to sit with another guy who had recently come in (BEFORE I bought her the 2nd drink) and the other girl flounced off as well. There I was feeling like an idiot by myself with two almost full drinks and no girls. It didn't take 5 seconds to decide that it just wasn't gonna be my night. As no other girls were nearby, I took my check to the bar and politely instructed the bartender to take the last two drinks off my bill. To her credit (and Guess Bar's) she immediately agreed with NO discussion. Points for the operation for sure.

Had Mardhi not been busy, I would have introduced myself and offered to buy him a drink when I first came in. Since he was busy, I guess I should have stood up and said that I was a BIG SPENDER who has barfined as many as 4 girls (and one bar owner Wink

) at one time. But I just left quietly. Will I go back? Certainly not alone. Perhaps to meet a known board member for a beer....