Bigtom's september trip (well some of it) ~ LB-69

Ladyboy Hunter Joined: 17 Jul 2006 Posts: 201 Points: 143

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waouhh !!

what a waste of time and money... Shocked

Taking a break to forget all the shit and problem from farangland and finally u get even more problem in holiday...
Just hope u didn't look back and forget this xxxxx forever.

After the rain come the sun Razz

Cheers !

Ladyboy Addict Joined: 26 Jan 2007 Posts: 59 Points: 81

i dont know you and i dont know wise but i see and i can only speak up generally about stuff like this.

you falled in love with this girl, and got betrayed in the worst way possible that how i see it, BUT you have to think a relationship with a working girl is very hard, what do you think she is doing while you are away... is this ok? do you think you are the only one for her? you didnt trust her therefor you put keylogger, and your suspicion was right. but even after you know this you keep being with her even if drugs are involved most of the time.
this will never work. but still you cannot let go of your feelings of her, they must be very strong.

find a girl that out of the scene thats the best way and know she not working bar! if she working bar, well... i would get her outta it soon as possible BUT its not easy and its not free.

just wanted to add im not a total newbie in this matter personally and friendly wise i have experience.

but good luck to you.

We met in Phuket, I had no idea it was this bad!

If you go to Thailand and fall in love you are asking for trouble. Their job is to extract money from tourists by any means possible, if you don't know this then you are always going to have a rough ride over there. It's all a fantasy land, take it for what it is. If you want a serious relationship you are in the wrong place (generally speaking).

Ladyboy Lover Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 25 Points: 30

You fell in love with a tweaked out hooker. Shocked

Hope you learned a lesson from this. Idea

Previously Wise had a reputation as a clean (as far as ladyboys hooks can be) fun girl who went to University and fucked for a bit of extra cash. I presume this is what justified his innitial feelings. Obviously drugs can change people very quickly.

But i think this report will teach people a lesson. DO NOT GET INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH A HOOKER! - and then expect everything to be normal. Yes i know there are people who will be the exception to this rule but people need to forget about finding love in bars. Crying or Very sad

So many similar stories.

The farang thinks and becomes convinced that his girl(LB) is different, she'll be faithful, it will all work out, and the mail/ letters convince him that she is doing all he wants and is waiting for him and him alone.

Sadly, the reality is different. The professional letter writers assist with keeping the illusion going, the distance strengthens the imagination, while she cannot understand the farang cannot distinguish between sex for love and sex for money. She has her obligations to her family and friends, besides which, "He not here, no matter", and "Maybe he no come back."

If there was an element of distrust there at the beginning, which there obviously was, it will be there at the end.

"You can take the girl out of the bar, but not the bar out of the girl" remains a line to remember......

Boy Oh Boy
I think I had gone through some S... before but that tops it up
Sorry to hear about this, guess we all have to learn the hard way, and being called a butterfly is Not a bad thing afterall.
Just treat this as a bad experience, and be cautious about getting too deeply involved
I got burned also some moons ago

WOW bigtom, feel for you, so easy to fall in love and be taken in by it all, keep coming back to thailand tho but forget wise, the first beer on me buddy, been in same boat but with two gg who know each other and they still think they can extract my hard earned out of me.
stevie

well Tom..it was nice to meet you.. Very Happy

but iam sorry for all the trouble you went through Confused

ill guess its normal some times to have trouble with the ladyboys like you had.....i just had it with a barowner instead... Laughing

well forget the moron...you still so young so you can learn from this...keep your head up high....and when she try to contact you again...and trust me...she will...DONT even answer... Cool

youre a good lad...and one nice person...you will have plenty of more nice experiences with the LB`s iam sure... Cool

And regarding revenge...well in my eye...you already got it...now she sit down there...realising she thrown out a MAJOR sponsor.. Twisted Evil

and THAT hurts in a golddiggers heart Cool

BTW...do be afraid about what she tells her friends or in here,personally i dont care...iwe meet you,and have my own impression(and its good) and for the ladyboys phhhhhhh when there is money in sight,they forget everything.. Laughing

so cheer up...forget the bitch...and start planning your next trip... Very Happy

if it will be in late april start may...we might just meets again..
Batman

hi bigtom.
you are going to have to read PRIVATE DANCER.
and again, read it a second time 1 week before you go to thailand.

you are a young lad, who will always do alright with the lb,s.
so , giving someone who,s addicted to drugs 20 grand for old times sake, invites problems.
when you throw as much money at them as you do, you only make more problems for yourself.
a fat european in his 50,s might fall for the "i love only you" bullshit. but that aint you.

thailand is a disneyland, where everone feels 10 years younger, and " vely hansum". enjoy the place for what it is, and then leave.

i think we,ve all been with an lb when the european boyfriend is calling her, and she,s saying," oh, im only in my loom."

not having a pop at you, i thought you were a sound lad.
this is advice i would give to anyone.
dont get attached......its all bollox.
good fun bollox ,granted.......but bollox all the same.

keep the relationship thing nearer to home, and enjoy the ride when away.
good luck man.

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Having a short distance relationship is a nightamre too.. Girls, who needs them..

My darkest moment in LOS was with a GG. She was riding on top of me, panting and screaming, when her phone rang. At first she didn't answer it but it kpet ringing and ringing and finally I said it was ok for her to take the call.

It was her bf back in the UK. She told him she was at home about to go to bed - she had a deal with him that she could go to the bar but wasn't allowed to stay with customers (in fact I've heard several GGs who have that same deal - of course none of them stick by it).

She started having a heart to heart with him about how much she loved him, whilst still bouncing up and down on me. And then it got dark... He asked her if she wanted to speak to his mum, I was shaking my head 'no, no, no', but she said yes.

She starts having a converstaion with this guys mum. The worst thing is I can hear her voice clearly and she sounds like my mum. It's so dark, the mum is asking her how her job 'serving drinks' is going, and that her son is telling her how wonderful she is, and tehy are looking forward to when they have saved enough money for her to visit, and this bar girl is smiling at me, grinding away, not missing a beat, but playing the perfect innocent GF over the phone.

It was so messed up, and another early lesson to me.

Wow! What a horrible bastard of a bird! I know they play guys for cash but thats just sick. Stories like that lesson the little respect i have for some of the bargirls in LOS.