There are three types of men attracted to ladyboys
1.) The first is bisexual men, which represents about 3% of the human population. A lot of these men have a great love of a feminine body (and mind), but want the male bits as well. Many more men are fair-weather bisexuals, meaning that they, 10,000 miles away from home, with nobody from work or church to catch them, will indulge in a sexual fantasy that they have been keeping on the back burner of their minds for many years. (Many men come to Thailand specifically for such fulfilment.)
2.) The next type of men who are attracted to ladyboys are cross dressers and transvestites, who represent a surprising 10% of the male population. Many, many men receive sexual satisfaction not only from the girls in the clothes, but from the clothes themselves, and wearing women's clothes is a secret pleasure of many of them. These men often fantasize about being women, but would never be able to go through becoming a woman (and probably if given the choice, wouldn't), but they do want to be sexually involved with someone who has. (Call it vicarious sexual gratification.)
3.) The final type of men who are attracted to ladyboys are submissive men, who represent about 15 to 20% of the population. Being "effeminate" is the outward manifestation of being mentally submissive and these submissive men seek out other submissive men (i.e. ladyboys) because they can be more open about their sexual interests and proclivities with a kindred spirit. (Try explaining to a bar girl that you want her to tie you up or spank you or otherwise "dominate" you... watch how fast they run.)
I would imagine that many of the BM here would take issue with the rigid classifications - but what the hell,..I'll vote
I was a bodybuilder throughout my 20s and lived in a predominantly gay area of a large N American city for 7 years. The opportunities for sex with an attractive, young fit male were abundant to say the least.
And, I never felt turned on by it. I am not attracted to the male.
But,..the first time I got in bed with an Asian TS - the experience was as unsettling as it was volcanic!
I guess I have to vote bisexual,..although I think it doesn't really fit me. * shrugs *
Again one of these "am i gay or not or what i am" topics. Who cares? I dont need an explanation why i am attracted to ladyboys. I just go out and have fun!
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anthony70 wrote:
you can dress it up all you like fellas, but we are all having gay sex in the bedroom.
Speak for yourself dude...
I'm a bi-sexual cross-dressing submissive
Recoil111 wrote:
Again one of these "am i gay or not or what i am" topics. Who cares? I dont need an explanation why i am attracted to ladyboys. I just go out and have fun!
As it's a ladyboys take on the attraction I personally don't see it as another addition to the tedious 'gay' debate.
But it comes as no surprise to get a response like that
I dont know what the hell i am but i will tick the other box. When i say not knowing, in 38 years i have had an unblemished record of hetro sexuality had never been with a fella never been attracted to a gent NEVER taken it in the jexy { still havent } do not persue this type of sexual activity at home, and i am not even a huge fan of the femboy scene but the Ladyboys i have been with, have all, in their own way cast a spell on me that makes me just want more.
Lastly i have been with alot of women but the hottest most intense sexual encounter i have ever had was on my most recent trip to BKK and with of course a ladyboy.
So i dont know what i am but am having a ball trying to work it out.
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Not sure if the first catergory should have been split into two options as it suggest bi-sexual and then fair weather bi who do it just becuase of where they are and she suggests this is the most common type.
I think I tend to fit into other, as none really match up to my preferances, I might be a fair weather person :) but find its as much to do with them simply being different from the norms and a change from everyday life.
As to option 3 I cannot say I like the idea of being spanked etc by a LB. I do like having a lady dominate me from time to time, but never been attracted to a LB doing it. (I'd argue its easier than suggested to find a bar girl to be kinky with, simply supply more baht although I'm sure if you suggest S&M to one she's likely to run.) but there are a few clubs in BKK and PT that provide ladies who like lots of wild things just gets more expensive.
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lbamylover wrote:
I dont know what the hell i am but i will tick the other box. When i say not knowing, in 38 years i have had an unblemished record of hetro sexuality had never been with a fella never been attracted to a gent NEVER taken it in the jexy { still havent } do not persue this type of sexual activity at home, and i am not even a huge fan of the femboy scene but the Ladyboys i have been with, have all, in their own way cast a spell on me that makes me just want more.
Lastly i have been with alot of women but the hottest most intense sexual encounter i have ever had was on my most recent trip to BKK and with of course a ladyboy.
So i dont know what i am but am having a ball trying to work it out.
Cheers
Well obviously if you had a 38 year unblemished hetro record and you don't take it up the jexy or even like femboys that much, you are 100% straight, but wait, you say you had an intense sexual encounter with an LB.
If this encounter involved you shoving your dick into her jexy, I'm afraid I and your previous female partners who voted for your unblemished hetro record have to advise you to vote Bisexual
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