Are some of us living a lie? ~ LB-69

Ladyboy Lover Joined: 26 Sep 2008 Posts: 26 Points: 68

Are some of us living a lie?I am just wondering how many of us are living double lives?
I am certainly living a double life.Girlfriend and son at home and an exciting life in Thailand.Its an extra excitement in my life.What are our excuses so we can lead this life?I am often supposed to be on a fishing vacation or on a walking holiday.But one glance at my passport and I am f##ked.

Ladyboy Guru Joined: 09 Feb 2006 Posts: 3518 Points: 2972

Hehe, is that a retorical question? Very Happy

You need dual citizenship so you have a second passport

I am Single but living a lie in someway to Friends and Family I guess

*Last edited by Brit on Sun Oct 19, 2008 12:01 am; edited 3 times in total*

It's a good question...

I've got a very open mind but understanding that others do not... i follow the following principles

To my friends - if my friends cannot accept my lifestyle then they are not my friends. I do not flaunt it - as i would not flaunt if i were having casual sex with a bevie of beauties (therefore would only introduce someone of meaning). I think it is about how you conduct yourself rather than your private sexual behaviour.

To my family - I'm not of the habit of discussing my sexual conquests to my brother/sister or parents. So feel no need to 'declare' my preferences.

To my work - my social life is my own business.

I am not hiding - I am not living a double life.

I am not ashamed of my behaviour - as i live my life with respect to others and I do try to be as charitable as i can.

And, quite importantly - i am not religious - and I have not been brought up to feel religious or social guilt about anything. I think religion has a major problem with LB's (even in Buddhist religious monks think an LB is paying back a sin from a previous life - which I think demeans the core values of Buddhism)

I think of LB's in the same way as GG's.
And treat them no differently.

Are you really a star ship trooper?

My 2 cents worth:

I have told my wife about my interest in LBs, and she accepts it. I tell her about 10-20%, but she prefers me going with LBs instead of GGs. I also find that this makes my sexlife with my wife better. Might be honesty, and the "strap-on factor" Oops

I have told my friends I prefer to drink with LBs in Crazy Horse, because they are more fun to be with than the standard GGs in the bars here in Singapore. This because of attitude, sense of humour etc. Even had a mate admitting to have a better night in CH than on the lower floors. Personally I prefer CH to Club Romeo, as there you get litterally attacked when you come in, and the percentage of post ops is much higher.

Work: Very Happy

forget it, I'm in a macho bussiness enviroment.

I think that puts me in the half lie league Very Happy

Yeah, your'e right about the prices, but living here, what choice do you have? If you get some "regulars" the price goes down, and anyway, compared to the worldwide rate of GGs, its about the same. Compared to LOS it is expensive of course. Romeo is a PIA really, you go in and you hear a stampede coming towards you. 15 LBs around you and they tell you to choose one. After that they expect you to go along with Ladydrinks at 20 S$ tilll you find the one you fancy. This is also a LB only place, so if you are out with friends, Crazy Horse is a better call of port, as it is 50/50.

Anyway, there are probly BMs who know more about the scene in Singapore than me, I have only been here for 4 months after spending 5 years in Dubai, and the LB scene is pretty meagre there.......

Ladyboy Hunter Joined: 05 Jun 2006 Posts: 107 Points: 132

Of course

I'd suspect most people are in one way or another.

Ladyboy Lover Joined: 03 Jul 2008 Posts: 38 Points: 59

I'm probably in a different situation than most guys here in that I have a US Transwoman as my girl-friend, and we will be moving in with eachother in a few months. Everyone who is close to me knows - parents brother, friends, and a few co-workers who I socialize with. My girl is 100% open and honest with her status, so I really either had to accept that and me just as honest or move on.

Ladyboy Guru Joined: 09 Feb 2006 Posts: 3518 Points: 2972

[quote="Brit"]

Ladyboy Guru Joined: 09 Feb 2006 Posts: 3518 Points: 2972

Ladyboy Lover Joined: 26 Sep 2008 Posts: 26 Points: 68

Thanks guys for your comments.
I like the bit about about non disclosure.I guess we are all entitled to a private life.I don't have religious hangups or marriage vows to deal with.What goes on behind closed doors is of concern only to the adults who are there.

I don't really view ladyboys any differently from the bar girls.They are sex workers offering a service.When I am in Thailand I just go with ladyboys,but back home it can be girls too.So I see the ladyboys in Pattaya as great fun and wicked sex objects and try and leave it at that.There are occasions when you feel yourself becoming attached,and for me thats the time to detach.For me its all fantasy and escapism.But its great fun.
Anyhow got to get back to my Starship.......

Something strange happened last night, my mates and some close female friends were having an awesome party and pretty much all of us got sloshed.

two of my mates and there girlfriends are going to Thailand next month and the topic went on to ladyboys, my closest female friends was asking allot of questions and they said how they saw pictures of ladyboys and how they are pretty ect...

Being drunk I shared my story about my obsessions trip in August where I had picked up a ladyboy without knowing, I shared every detail with them- how attractive I thought she was and what happened in the room (no sex happened) just oral and kissing i then shared this story with three of my best mates who i know i can trust and do not judge people.

there reactions was basically like this " Dude.... hahaha" and then we were discussing how guys are attractive to the feminine side of ladyboys- I said that I found them more attractive than the normal girl in LOS ect...

but I explained it in a way of that it's not my new hobby and that I didn’t know it was a lb ect but I feel if I told them that I love to fuck ladyboys they would accept it but they would give me allot of shit! LOL!

Lately i have been saying how i would fuck a ladyboy instead of that fat bitch LOL

and I did get agreements... Idea